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The Little Dog That Waited

We both spotted the same little porcelain dog in the back of a Maine antique mall. We both put him down. Then we made a deal.

Your First Pride. Your Most Recent One. What Changed in Between.

You've done this enough times to have a whole archive in your head. First Prides, best Prides, the one where you cried in the street. Here's what changes between your first Pride and your most rece...

May's Hunky of the Month Is Tim

Tim took May with maximum outdoor energy — backyard, sunshine, zero hesitation. Now it's June, and the theme is Pride, your way.

Why Gay Men Over 40 Don't Have Enough Gay Friends

Gay men over 40 are lonelier than they let on. Here's why our generation never built enough gay male friendship — and what actually works.

I'd Rather Pay You Than Pay Zuckerberg

I don't run ads anymore. Instead, I'm putting that budget directly into the Hunky Tribe. Introducing Hunky of the Month, a monthly photo contest with real store credit up for grabs.

The Gays Who Raised You: Why Your Chosen Family Is Your Real Coming-Out Story

For a lot of gay men, the family that actually formed them wasn't the one they were born into. It was built. Here's what that looks like, and why it matters more than ever in 2026.