The Gay Bar Is Dying. We Were Never Just the Bar Anyway.

I never got the gay bar. The closet kept me out, and by the time the door finally opened the bars were closing. A first-person piece on the third place we lo...

Frot, Frottage, and Why Nobody Talks About It: A Hunky Tops Guide

The straightforward, no-shame guide to gay frottage: what frot and frottage actually mean, where they sit in gay intimacy culture, the real health picture, w...

Log In, Hunky. The Good Stuff's Behind the Door.

One login unlocks everything fun on the site: the gallery, wishlists, try-ons, heat, and your own Hunky Profile. Here's what's new and how to get in.

The Little Dog That Waited

We both spotted the same little porcelain dog in the back of a Maine antique mall. We both put him down. Then we made a deal.

Your First Pride. Your Most Recent One. What Changed in Between.

You've done this enough times to have a whole archive in your head. First Prides, best Prides, the one where you cried in the street. Here's what changes bet...

Why Gay Men Over 40 Don't Have Enough Gay Friends

Gay men over 40 are lonelier than they let on. Here's why our generation never built enough gay male friendship — and what actually works.