What Is a Gaymer? The Word, the Fight to Keep It, and the Men Who Were There
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What Is a Gaymer? The Word, the Fight to Keep It, and the Men Who Were There

A gaymer is an LGBTQ+ person who games. The word was coined in a 1991 personal ad and fought for in 2013. Here's the whole story.

Hunky BlogTip Toe starring Alan Cumming and David Morrissey. Image courtesy of Channel 4.

I Wanted Tip Toe to Lie to Me. It Wouldn't.

I've always believed acceptance moves like a pendulum. It swings one way, then back, and balances out. Then my husband and I watched Tip Toe, and Russell T Davies spent five episodes telling me I w...

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For Those Who Know

A Hunky Tops shirt is about identity, recognition, and wearing yourself on purpose.

Hunky BlogThe Gay Bar Is Dying. We Were Never Just the Bar Anyway.

The Gay Bar Is Dying. We Were Never Just the Bar Anyway.

I never got the gay bar. The closet kept me out, and by the time the door finally opened the bars were closing. A first-person piece on the third place we lost, and why the tribe was never the buil...

Hunky BlogFrot, Frottage, and Why Nobody Talks About It: A Hunky Tops Guide

Frot, Frottage, and Why Nobody Talks About It: A Hunky Tops Guide

The straightforward, no-shame guide to gay frottage: what frot and frottage actually mean, where they sit in gay intimacy culture, the real health picture, why consent matters, and how all of it ti...

Hunky BlogLog In, Hunky. The Good Stuff's Behind the Door.

Log In, Hunky. The Good Stuff's Behind the Door.

One login unlocks everything fun on the site: the gallery, wishlists, try-ons, heat, and your own Hunky Profile. Here's what's new and how to get in.

Hunky BlogSmall vintage porcelain dog figurine, white with a black patch over one eye and ear and a painted red collar, sitting on a navy lamp base.

The Little Dog That Waited

We both spotted the same little porcelain dog in the back of a Maine antique mall. We both put him down. Then we made a deal.

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