Staycation & Slaycation: How to Have the Gayest Summer Without Leaving Town

Let’s face it—summer travel in 2025 is expensive. Flights are up, hotels are booked out, and between inflation and work burnout, many of us queer folks are craving rest without the added drama of airport chaos, anti-LGBTQ legislation, or breaking the bank. So, what’s the solution?

Staycation, baby. And not just any staycation—one with queer joy, safety, and a splash of kitsch.

Why Staycations Work for LGBTQ+ Folks Right Now

• Save That Coin: A staycation cuts out airfare and pricey hotels, letting you splurge on experiences instead of transportation.
• Stay Safe: In a time where our rights and safety are being politicized in certain states, sticking close to home or choosing queer-friendly destinations means more freedom to be yourself.
• Reconnect Locally: Your state may surprise you. Hidden gems exist, and you might rediscover queer culture (and each other) in new ways.

Ocean City, NJ: Yes, That Ocean City

While Ocean City may lean red on the political map, don’t let that scare you off completely. It’s a family-friendly, clean, and walkable town that welcomes all types of vacationers—yes, even fabulous gay couples and chosen families. Want budget-friendly fun? Don’t miss Haunted Golf on the boardwalk—silly, spooky, and a blast for just a few bucks. Perfect for couples who want to laugh, hold hands in a ghostly dark hallway, and snap that campy Insta pic.

Tip: Go midweek for smaller crowds and easier parking. And if you’re feeling nervous about openly queering it up in more conservative towns—don’t dim your sparkle but trust your intuition. Safety first.

Asbury Park: The Queer Jersey Shore Mecca

You already know this one’s iconic. Asbury Park is where queer history meets beachside nightlife, and Paradise (inside the Empress Hotel) is its glittering crown jewel. Two dance floors:

• One pulsing with current Top 40 and pop divas
• The other throwing it back with 80s, 90s, and disco classics
• Plus a tropical tiki bar and outdoor pool for mid-set cool downs

Yes, there’s usually a cover (around $20), but it’s worth it for a night of queer joy in a space that feels like home.

Pro tip: Bring cash for the door and drinks, hydrate (inside and out), and have a ride plan if you’re not staying over.

More Summer Safety Tips for the Gays & Theys

1. Sun’s Out, SPF On: Queer or not, skin protection is hot. A good SPF 50 is your best accessory.
2. Consent is Still Key: Whether you’re on the dance floor or the beach, communication and mutual respect are always in style.
3. Protect Your Energy: Pride season can be overstimulating. Build in solo time or quiet mornings to recharge.
4. Hydrate and Don’t Overshare: Keep water in your hand and your phone close—especially if you’re using dating apps or location-based features.
5. Know Your Local Laws: Especially when traveling to unfamiliar towns. Some places have outdated (and frankly, dangerous) rules for public displays of affection or queer expression.

The Bottom Line

You don’t have to fly to Mykonos or max out your credit card to have an unforgettable summer. Staycations give gay couples and queer folks a way to enjoy the sunshine without compromising on safety, community, or fun. You can flirt on the Asbury boardwalk and giggle through a ghostly putt-putt round in Ocean City but remember that joy is just a short drive away.

Pack your weekender bag, grab your boo (or your besties), and make this summer about local love and low-stress luxury.

See you on the boardwalk,

The Marketing Maven